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This is a great topic. For our family, it is imperative to avoid being over-scheduled, which adds unnecessary stress to our lives. My husband and I have learned that this takes a great commitment on both our parts. It is so easy to get sucked into the whirlwind of events, especially when you have kids. A couple of things that keep us grounded are:
*Committing to eat at home, at the table at least five nights a week, more if possible. Not only do we tend to eat healthier at home, but we also keep our family time as a priority. This isn't as easy as it sounds! We have to stay on top of meal planning and getting dinner started by a decent time everyday.
*Allowing our children to be involved in one sport and one social group at a time only, for example, swimming class meeting twice a week and scouts meeting once a week. If the kids want to try something new, then we sit down, plan it out and decide what activities will change and when.
*Including "cushion time" on the daily calendar. Cushion time is down time and it is a must for us.
*Learning and knowing how to say "No" to friends and family, when we are already booked to capacity. This is difficult for me, but my family and close friends have learned that it's not personal, it is simply a lifestyle choice that we have committed to following.
The big area that we still need practice is summer activities. We plan vacations, road trips, summer camp, etc... and get caught up in wanting to fit it all into those "golden three free months" and before you know it, summer is over and we are all exhausted. We're still learning, as everyone does.
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