There are many conditions that co-exist with ADD /ADHD such as dyslexia and other learning difficulties, OCD, ODD, and so on.
Beware of lumping in other problems that often
occur in children with ADHD – including depression, anxiety
and learning difficulties – under the single diagnosis of ADHD.
Experts are getting better at understanding the
differences between learning disabilities and ADHD.
Sometimes they can overlap and that can be tricky…
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Focus on the positive: get your child to write a list of
everything she likes about herself, such as her good
characteristics and things she can do.
Stick it on her bedroom wall or in the kitchen, so she sees it every day.
Encourage your child to add to it regularly.
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Does you child feel that you (and the rest of the world) owe him a living?
Is your child spoiled rotten and feels that he should get what he wants when he wants it?
“I Want It Now!” How to Challenge a False Sense of Entitlement in Kids
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All children behave badly from time to time, and
sometimes get aggressive, but it's more common for children
with ADHD to have problems with their behavior.
This is because the core symptoms of hyperactivity, impulsivity
and inattention all affect the way your child interacts.
If you look at how these symptoms can affect a child's
behavior, it's easy to see how they are linked to bad or
aggressive behavior.
1 Hyperactivity causes a child to…
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Dealing with the tough behaviors that children with ADHD can exhibit can push parenting and
teaching skills to the limit.
This means children with ADHD
often receive a lot of negative feedback and critical comments.
It's thought that these negative parenting and relating
styles increase the likelihood of aggressive behavior that, if
unchecked, can lead to oppositional disorder or the more
severe conduct disorder.
Children with ADHD are more…
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Bad behavior often decreases when it costs your child
something.
The three main costs are:
* time,
* money
* and undesirable consequences such as briefly removing your child from an activity he/she enjoys.
The main reasons a punishment fails are:
* because it’s too severe,
* it’s given too late,
* or it’s inconsistent.
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Where possible, make sure you give your child a good
reason for the behavior you want. For example, tidying up your
room will mean you'll find things more easily.
There are actually some very effective ways to reduce bad
behavior.
1 Get your child's attention. Address him/her by name and
speak clearly.
2 Keep commands short and simple.
3 Give quick punishments that can be enforced now.
It's not always possible to ignore bad behavior and…
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Avoid punishments that have the potential to harm your
child either physically or psychologically. For example, keep
from insulting your child publicly.
Be careful not to reward bad behavior. For example,
items you buy after a tantrum on a shopping trip could be seen
as a reward. Keep consequences small and instant. It's
consistency that's effective - not severity. Monitor the effect of
the punishment. If it isn't changing behavior, it's time to try…
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Let your child make choices for themselves. Instead of
giving them a myriad of options, set out two and let them
choose between one and the other.
ADHD children can’t concentrate on many things all at the same time.
When you taper down choices, you are giving them the ability to make
decisions but you are not overwhelming them either.
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Speaking from personal experience, this author can tell
you that having an ADHD child in the classroom can be one of
life’s most difficult situations. ADHD children require a lot of
attention and constant supervision to be kept on task.
When there are several other children that need your
attention as well, it’s not always possible to focus enough
attention on that one student who is disruptive even when you
know you need to do exactly…
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Parenting the ADD Child is difficult enough without adding guilt to the mix.
Always keep in mind that you are not a bad parent in any
way shape or form just because your child has ADHD. As we’ve
said before, some people feel that ADHD is just a myth that
doesn’t truly exist.
This simply isn’t true. ADHD is a medical condition with no one to blame. These
children are demanding and always on the go. That’s just the
way they are. It’s not your fault;…
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ADHD is most often recognized and referred for treatment
in third grade. This is when elementary school kids most often
hit the "academic wall."
In third grade they are expected to do more and more
work on their own, and they are given more homework to do as
well. There are also many referrals in seventh grade, or when
the child leaves Elementary School for Junior High School, with
several classes and several teachers.
There are times when…
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A child with ADD Often has a low self-esteem. Because they are more difficult and challenging to deal with, those around them tend to react in a negative manner toward them. Coupled with So how can you help your child with his or her self-esteem?
Praise and reward: you need to make your child feel
positive about himself or herself, so try and give praise
wherever possible. This can be for large or small actions -
for example if she's tried hard at school or has…
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Aside from an IEP, what else can you do in the classroom?
These children are very easily distracted, and the classroom is
the worst place for them since there can be so much going on
all at the same time. Consider your seating plan.
1 Move your ADD ADHD student's desk to where there are
fewer distractions, close to the teacher to monitor and
encourage, or near a well-focused child.
2 It is usually better to use rows for seating arrangement
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When you give assignments to the ADHD child, break
them up into small, manageable pieces. By doing this, you are
acknowledging that their attention span is a hindrance to them
and they can complete the smaller parts of an assignment
without losing their train of thought.
It might also help to provide these kids with step-by-step
instructions on how to complete an assignment. Give them a
checklist that allows them to cross off a step once…
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Love and trust are vital ingredients if your child is to develop a healthy self-esteem.
Don't attach conditions to your love.
Your child needs to know you love her no matter how she
behaves.
Tell your child she's special and let her know you
trust and respect her.
This will make all the difference in the world.
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ADHD can be a difficult problem to understand
and cope with. When you are faced with this disorder in any
way, it can be extremely beneficial to surround yourself with
people who know how you feel.
You can pool your resources to find help and get support
that will help you cope with the daily frustrations of ADHD. So
where do you find that support?
Start by looking around your community. Talk to a
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Sports and hobbies: joining a club or having a hobby can
build self-esteem. Depending on your child's interests, the
activity could be swimming, dancing, martial arts, crafts
or cooking.
No matter what the hobby, your child will gain
new skills to be proud of - and for you to praise.
Sometimes children with ADHD will go off their activity, so
be prepared to come up with new ideas.
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Part of self-esteem has to do with criticism. You have to
teach your child the best way to deal with that criticism.
Tell them the following and then reinforce it:
1. Listen to what's being said. Don't interrupt to contradict
or make excuses.
2. Agree with it, where possible.
3. Ask questions if they are unsure about anything.
4. Admit mistakes and apologize.
5. Calmly disagree if it's unfair. For example, they can
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I would often get annoyed and frustrated with my ADHD son because I would tell him to finish his snack and get started on his homework only to find him playing outside or watching TV.
When I asked him why, his usual response was that he forgot. He was also very forgetful in general, as most children with ADD are.
ADD kids have trouble with both long-term and short-term memory. The problem these children experience with Short-term memory is that they cannot keep something…
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